| Location | Leicester |
| Age | 39 years |
| Date of Birth | 12/1963 |
| Date of Death | 2/2003 |
| Visitors | 1,653 since 14/05/2007 |
| Creator |
paul was 39 when he passed away, the drs thought he had pnumonia because he had a shadow on his lung, but it was a blood clot and after being sent home from the Leicester Royal by Dr Dan Becker paul passed away as the blood clot travelled and lodged itself in his main artery of his heart causeing him to have an heart attack.
Paul was fit and healthy and the Dr assumed because of this he couldnt possibly have a blood clot so he chose to diagnose him with Pnumonia which proved to be the wrong diagnosis and as a result we lost a careing, loveing, supporing and best brother anyone could ever wish for also his 2 children lost their dad which they doteing on.
Paul was a panel beater at Ford and Slater he always worked all his life to support his 2 children and long time fiance Debbie who he loved very much.
He loved his fast cars and bikes and once built a Ford Shelby Cobra 427 with a Rover V8 engine which he built in 8 months on his front with no garage. what ever he put his hands to he could do, he was so talented but never gave himself any credit because he was to busy looking out for others always.
The love of his life apart from his son Dean and daughter Danielle had to be his Kawasaki Ninja superbike which is stil in the family thanks to our brother in law and is kept imaculate just how paul would have kept it.
He was loved by all his family and had so many friends i dont think paul realised just how much every one thought of him.
His funeral said it all, with at least 100 superbikes and the church doors had to be left open cause we couldnt all fit in.
He is missed so much by every one and hel live on forever in our hearts and our thoughts always theyl never be a day that we wont think of him or shed a tear for him.
Im so proud he was our brother his memory will live with us til the day we meet him again.
Thank u all for ur lovely messages and candles and words of support.
Jan. xx
i miss you
Sorry i havent wrote for aa while couldnt get on your site.. thinking of uu last night alot reading through the comments that people wrote brought bacck memories and made me smile! Got really emotional reading them aswell.. you are missed so much.. iv been thinkig bout you so much rescently(not that i dont anyway). even though i waas so young wen you got took from us i have alot of memories to keep me smiling. i didnt really understand wat was going on that awful night it dint sink in either.. i remember going bacck home that night in Gaz's car and i couldnt wait to get home and give uu a big cuddle.. wen i was at the front door seen tears in mums eyes BUT i didnt know why she was crying because i thought uu was better.. Mum explained wat happened BUT i still didnt believe it i was sitting on the sofa waiting for you to walk in the living room door. and i waiting for days for you to walk through the door.. BUT it didnt happen.. i really didnt understand wat had happened. i went to see you before we said a realy good bye and i couldnt look at you i couldnt even go in the room. BUT i did in the end and i stroked your hair held your hand and gave you my favourite teddy.. i could of stood there all day and night! i truely miss you and i would never forget you.. how could i forget the most important person in my life?! xx im soo lucky to have you as my DAD and i wouldnt change you! your my everything DAD! i love you millionss and think of you always.. LOVE YOU xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hey DAD
Thinkingof you again as always. reading through veryones comments bring housands of tears to my eyes now iv got sore eyes and a blocked nose LOL.
I hope to see youu in my dreams tonight i really want to talk to you i need to talk to you. I know you have been looking over me making sure iv been making the right decisions. i had a tattoo on my back bout a year ago a big cross with roses each side with D A D in the middle of the cross. its Gotpurple roses and green writing like your bike colours:) I brought a hamster few monthsback really loved it i named it stewie. after 2months of having it it died :( now i want a kitten but waiting till i get a job first wich wont be long now :D Shannels doing well but she can be naughty most times hehe. i shown hr a picture of you not so long ago and i said grandad and she copied me its soo sweet wen she says it. Im gonna tell her all abut you wen shes old enough to understand wat im going on about. Although dean will but id like to aswell. Im really trying my best to make my future bright im doing things off my own back insteadof people telling me to do things i just do it. and im doing it all for you!! I really want to make you proud.I really miss seeing you! Remember that time we was at zoannes and i had the 2 front teeth hanging out and you puled them out in the passage LOOL that hurt but atleast they was out the way. and the time you crimped my hair with zoannes hair crimplers i loved my hair like that i dint know it would look that good you was the best at doing everything!. I remember wen we went to a pub and i sat on your bike and you started it up and done a burn out or something like that. i remember that that frightened mee! Hahaha.
Gonna save some moneyy up and get you some lovely flowers and things for your grave i did get you a birthday card and me and my friends went up on your birthdayy and sat with you for a while. hope your card is still there.
I never forget the day you was took away from the family me, dean and mum just expecting you to walk through the door and i was expectig to see you walk in the back garden after work and give me a cuddle and a kiss. I remember wen i used to get the brush and scratch your back with it so i could stay up later instead of going bed.
I miss all the times i spent with youu especially the christmas parties atnana's house int he kitchen. Iv got all these memories to cherish i will never forget them.
Soo please DAD come and see me tonight id really LOVE that. i want a massive cuddle and a huge kiss. and a big catch up on all the years we've missed.
Im going to have a little rest now else id be blabbering on all night. Love you with all my heart your daughter
miss youu!
Its early hours tuesday morning and i was thinking about you soo thought i would look on your site. im doing well for myself now futures looking good. Gotmyself a job but havent started yet got to wait for paper work to be sorted.cant wait to get a job and be stable. iv got myself a boyfriend now he's a really nice lad makes me laugh and smile alot. Dean approves with him LOL me and dean get on really great now me and mum went to deans house for dinner and dean cooked it never thought i would see the day dean cooked. but yes it was really nice. He's gota kawasaki ninja same coulours as yours he took a few pictures on my phone of his bike. It scares me though because its realy big! Wewas talking about the old days. God i really miss you. wishyou was here right now (my eyes are watering) :( You are the best DAD ever! i always remember the times we had like dancing in the living room to ub40 (: and wen we as in your bedroom and you teached me how the days change and the world goes round. I could tell you anything i wanted and you would listen to me for ages. iam so lucky to have you as a dad. you mean everything to me. i think about you everyday.i had a dream once i was sitting on the bottom step at home i heard a bike pull up outside the door i thought it was dean and then the door opened and it was you i seen your big smile on your face and i ran into your arms and didnt let go i had that dream few years ago and i still remember it. your always in my dreams and its wounderfull. Just to see your face every night wenim asleep. Your the best personinthe world and you have made me happy. Just wish there was something i could of done. im going to say bye now bwcause im in tears and can hardly see the letters on the laptop LOL
I LOVE YOU with all my HEART Goodnight DAD
For i have sailed upon the seas,
on waters crystal blue;
salt blown breeze kissed my face,
sailing hand in hand with you
Skimming 'cross the water,
no destination clear;
content to rest there by your side,
finding comfort in you near.
Yet as we sailed into the mist,
into the setting sun;
i heard a summon from afar,
a song that called me home.
I turned my face into the wind,
and listened to the song;
a tune that called out in the mist,
beckoning me to come.
So when your heart still yearns for me;
just know I'm hear hear with you;
My spirit soar hear where we sailed,
' cross the waters crystal blue.
this poem is by Allison Chambers Coxsey
hope you like it as much as i do,
takecare all my love to you all linda xxx.
arrived safe
hiya paul xxx shes here safe and well .. i have named her ruby you would already no that as you are looking over all of us 24/7
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A Real Special Hug!
I'm sending you this hug
Just to say hi,
In case you were wondering
The reason why.
You're a special friend
With a real kind heart,
I'd hug you myself
But we're too far apart.
So here is this poem
To cheer up your day,
I picked out this hug
And sent it your way.
A real special hug
To say that I care,
To thank you for being there
Throughout the whole year.
♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~ ♥~
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Balonous
Hey Paul. xx
Sorry i aint been on for a while, but ur stil been in ma thoughts always and in my heart forever. x
Well its all good stuff Balonous cause Karen and Aimeleigh and Kylie have booked a bungalow in the same site that me and kyle have booked ours, so its going to be a great holiday it would have been even better if u could have come over again but i know yourl be there with us. x
Aint seen Bean for a while or Danielle i cant beleive how time flys by without things happening eh.
Had Keidan-Paul last night for a few hours, hes coming on along lovely, hes doing so much already hes so inteligent he dont get that from me lol it must be Kyle.
Leanne is doing well at her football for Leicester City , she scored a hat trick last Sunday bless her shes coming along lovely.
Its nice how people have left candles and poems for u every day eh its nice to know people care and are thinking about u every day . xx
Going to come down to ur garden at the weekend ive not been down for a while, but im going to make the effort at the wkend for sure.
I love and miss u so much Paul I miss u so much :-(
love and hugs always , Jan Jan .xx
Balonous
Hiya Balonous xx
How the fook are ya ? i miss hearing u say that so much. x
I went Karens on Tuesday and picked up Aimeleigh-lee Ive loved having her here but tomorrow which is Saturday she has to go back to Karens :-( God shes beautiful Paul Karen has done a brilliant job with her, she had alot of problems but Karen persivered and shes got her all manoured and looked after lovely, its been hard for her as u know, but thanks to her none of us have to worry about her now, shes happy and very safe.
Got Keidan-paul just now until Sunday hes growing up to quick ur grandaughter is beautiful shes always happy bless her and its lovely to see Dean alot of late he looks so much so like u its unreal.
Sorry i aint bin on here to write to u for a while but ive been so busy this wk with one thing or another and the time just proper flys away before u know it u aint bin on here for almost a wk its just flying by its almost April already.
Ive just painted the kitchen which was a bad thing to do actualy cause now theys gunna be a smell of paint in the house all night cause its like 10.40pm just now i should have left it til the morning i guess, but i just wanted to see what it was going to look like lol and now i know and now were all suffering the bloody pain fumes .
Aimeeleigh has just gone to bed and Keidan-paul is going off to sleep with Gaz just now so its quiet in the house just now, kirsty and ryan have gone to bed cause ryans at work tomoz and kirsty is just lazy lol Leanne stayed at Karens im picking her up tomoz when i take Aimee-leigh lee back cause leannes playing a football match on Sunday.
Kyle is out and about in his car i worry about him always , it was a good thing he passed his test but not a good thing in a way for me cause i do nuffin but worry about him always i cant sleep until his home.
Did i tell u flipper died ? i cant remember if i did or not , but we had him like 11 yrs blimey it seems weird going in the hall way and he aint there swimming away in his bowl anymore lol.
Well Balonous i guess i should go and settle down to cause im proper tired to the max just now.
I love ya Paul and i miss u so much. Think about u every day.
al my love always Jan Jan .xx
Balonous
Hey Balonous . xx
Just finished ma shift, geezers did i know i just did one, blimey its hectic just now, theys alot of patients in just now but most are very poorly bless them. xx
Ive not even had time for a drink yet, i just got in from work and came on here to talk to u, id love to be phoneing u up right now.
Im off from work now for over a wk i had to take ma holidays oweing to me before the end of March so just now i aint in until Monday 31st which if i remember correctly is Clint Eastwoods birthday lol sad aint i, but as u know i was a fan of his through most of my child life and i remember things about him still :-) xx
actual thinking about it, i think its May the 31st , anyway, it begins with a M lol
Aint seen Karen or Aimeleigh for a while and i miss um so much miss Kylie to, shes grown into a beautiful young lady just like all our girls have, makes a difference i think when kids have good parents that stick by their kids eh .
Im just eating a plate of stuffin lol remember when we used to go in the pantry down Adcock road and eat the dog biscuites lol u used to eat the red triangles and i used to eat the bone shaped ones lol
Remember that goldfish i won at the Fire station ? well he died the other day he was 11yrs old blimey , we all went in the bathroom and did the ............ ' we are gathered here together today ' thing and sent him off lol :-) xx
Well Balonous i guess i should go and shower and get this uniform off eh.
Love u with al my heart and i miss u so much. xx
love always Jan Jan xx
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